Dating an older guy while in college
So, this may start some controversy, but I'm intrigued by what other people's response to this question is (sorry if it's a double post)First off, I'm going to say that I am not planning on making any moves or anything by asking this question and seeing the responses, because I'm uneasy about age differences. Okay, so a girl who is a junior in highschool started talking with me today. Living in the area in which I do, she has a lot of the same interests that I do, which is rare in any girl up here.I'm one of those people who feels really bad if I ignore someone, so I talked with her. We both play music, listen to the same genre and so on. But, she's in highschool, so no." Again, I'm not implying that I want to go after her, or anything. What do you think of guys going after girls that are 4 years younger than them?
Ethan Bennett, 26, and Mia Thompson, 18, haven’t been affected by an eight-year difference — two years more than the formula’s appropriate “cut off age.” The pair met on the University of Minnesota campus, which offered a free prep session led by college students.In fact, just a few days ago, Tyga posted a picture of Kylie on Instagram with the caption, “Certain things catch your eye but only few capture the heart.” The relationship between these two is taboo and not okay because it’s technically considered statutory rape, which we’ve talked about before.While it’s completely normal to have an age difference in a relationship, it’s not acceptable for an adult to be dating someone is not of the age of consent.In the beginning I only thought about teaching Mia ways to calm down and convince herself about her own abilities,” Bennett said. During those eight weeks, it wasn’t uncommon for her parents to see me around her, but as we began to grow closer, it was her mom that noticed first and confronted us.” “It wasn’t as bad as you think,” Thompson said about her parents’ reaction to dating a college student.“But as we got to know each other more, we found we had a lot in common, such as spending hours reading a book in Barnes & Noble and bowling with friends at night. “I’m pretty sure it would’ve been a different story if my dad caught on first. “She did warn Ethan about what would happen if he broke my heart and what she would allow her husband to do to him if he did.I know you think we seem like “old, boring” people with “no imagination” (I’ve read your comments).
And I get why it can be a little hard to understand. When I was 18-years-old, I was seeing a 28-year-old guy I worked with.
Because of this, I was drawn to people like my best friend, who was dynamic and bold.
She was the one who things happened to, the starting point of every story. He, in turn, went to find my friend and her boyfriend, who were none too pleased at having to leave so soon after we got there.
I would say it would be better if you were a freshman in college and she was a senior. We're not together because my parents don't know a thinf and because I know they won't allow me to have a bf yet. And he also told me that he could go to jail anytime if i say so cause he's an adult and im a kid or something like that.
You have to remember that she can't go to bars with you and even see an r-rated movie. I say that if you found a girl that you mesh with and you like her, then go for it. Remember that everything would always depend on love.
But just know that soon she will be in college and want to explore so the relationship might not last. I love this guy who's 5 years older than me and he loves me back. If you still have questions just ask I am a mom and a very protective one,my 3 sons are very protective of their sister,so with that in mind if an older man wants to date my very young daughter..better not touch her.