Dating for large people uk
Here at Larger uk big really is beautiful and the curvaceous female form is celebrated wholeheartedly.Our lady members adore their curves as do our gentleman members looking to meet the woman of their dreams.
Women please vote with the red side, men with the blue.This applies to men as much as women, take the recent internet craze of dad-bods, people celebrating men who were neither super fit or super fat - they were normal and yet you'd have thought no one had seen an average torso before.Similarly, people subconsciously associate bigger women with being lazy and lacking in self-pride and thinner women as being active and more conscious of their appearance. Who doesn't know at least one person who contradicts these stereotypes - a thin friend who lives on junk food or a 'fat' friend who smashes the gym, has great skin, perfect proportions and not an inch of cellulite on her (yes, I know at least three women like this) There is no hard and fast rules to what constitutes being attractive - and whilst Im not suggesting that men should be obligated to find all shapes and sizes attractive, my one golden nuggets of advice to men who write off women before they've met them, be it online, via a blind date or through an agency is grow up a bit when it comes to stats on a piece of paper.Update: With over 700 votes in, the clear trend, aside for the 5’11 anomaly, is guys feel the threshold should be 5’10 and ladies feel it should be 6′.Note that the traffic here is mainly tall people though, so this introduces some bias.For tall women though, this means competing with average height women.
The founder, who is interviewed below, is willing to change the threshold. Let’s assume the limit for men remains at 6′, as no one seems to have an issue with that.
Not because they necessarily, have better bodies (although some of them actually did - bigger but fitter and far more in proportion) but because they what they have. It isn't at the forefront of their mind or something they consider to be a hinderance in life. Big girls don't make trophy wives - or so the media would have us believe.
Not only does this make them sexy but it makes my heart weep for every guy (lonely, I'll add - you don't join a dating agency if you're not looking for someone to fill an emotional gap) who'd joined up, entrusted (and paying) somebody else to find them love to then turned a person down, before they'd even met them, based on their weight. Our society is also all about extremes - people are either fat or thin and people - men, in this case, struggle to imagine anything in-between - there is no normal or middle ground when you are being read out the stats of another person only labels that define you as a type of person.
Sad to say that, the vast majority of men who I spoke to who were single and ready to date, refused to date 'fat girls'.
Some disguised it as 'preferring girls to be fit' or 'wanting them to be in proportion' but we all knows what that means - find me skinny.
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