Dating or marrying a chinese woman
To force them to learn piano, ballet, English, drawing at a very young age. To buy a house, change it to a bigger one, send kids to school, then to a doctoral degree, at last to a big company. In this forum, there are some members who just married Chinese girls. Anyway, this article can be a guide to any foreigner who plans to get married with a Chinese girl. Chinese family gives too much pressure to their child. Raindrop, North America Brother Cui must be a Chinese who fictioned this popular article. It is written in Chinese and someone translated into English.
This, however, is still not the case where China is concerned.Bearing in mind China has a culture that spans and Chinese people are exceptionally different in thought and action compared to westerners, this subject warrants some attention.I recall a guy I knew some years ago who was really into one particular Chinese girl I had met a few times.Recently, a blogger named “North America Brother Cui” post an article about 6 consequences of a foreigner will have if he marries a Chinese woman because of big culture difference. Once you married to a Chinese, it is tantamount to marrying her entire family. Once you live with Chinese, you do not have privacy any more. Your lady will bring up things back to long time ago. He declared that the reason why China can not produce a explorer like Columbus is Chinese wife will start inquiring before he sail, such as “where? The company has many employees "ghost writer" to whom a number of people that they would write to.In less than half a year, his wife’s parents, sisters with kids came to his home. Chinese are hospitable; there should be no distance between on another if being together. His wife wraps the furniture and rug with plastic in order to keep them clean without dust. The man from abroad choose one or he is interested in knowing more about.Six months later, after much frustration and heartache on his part, he came back and simply said "you were right, I should have listened to you".
Dating Chinese girls can in fact be a very steep learning curve.
The importance of family, honor, and hard work are reflected in all aspects of life, including romantic relationships and dating.
As a first generation Chinese American, I grew up in the San Francisco Bay Area, a major hub for multitudes of Asians and Asian Americans.
I had always understood certain facets of everyday life as norms since most of my peers were like me and grew up in households like mine.
I never attributed tenets as simple as honoring and respecting elders, especially parents, to my ethnic upbringing.
One example is if she advises you to take care of your health, or when the weather is changing to wear more clothes.