Early dating communication
Putting the man in front of your feelings and needs may seem like the right thing to do at the beginning of a relationship (hey, don’t we all have irrational fears that aren’t attractive? Just because you don’t want to feel insecure, needy, uncomfortable and scared, doesn’t mean that you aren’t feeling that way.
Are you, instead, trying your best to show him what a great catch you are by being the sweet, fun-time, easy-breezy gal on the outside (even if you are crumbling with worry and insecurity on this inside)?Us gals will spend time getting to know the guy, ascertain his intentions (i.e. ) and evaluate his husband potential and our feelings for them.Because we tend to ‘filter’, it’s more of a gradual process.Ahhhh, you’re in a new relationship and all things seem so wonderful!You may be feeling those butterflies in your stomach, you laugh at all your partner’s jokes, feel warm and tingly inside.Trying to play the “cool card” when you are anything but, isn’t going to bring him closer.
He’s going to smell a disharmonious vibe wafting off you: you say you’re fine but your energy screams, “Do you love me or not, and why don’t you show it more?!
Perhaps this happens because of emotional maturity or incompatibility.
Here, we asked our singles to share their thoughts. What’s one thing that men/women do to sabotage them?
An example of that would be if you said that you LIKED to travel when you are afraid of flying!
You can only make up a certain number of excuses before your partner clues in to the fact that you don’t like to fly or travel.
Before a man chooses whether or not to commit to you, you’ll need to move through a couple of key stages with him. Here, Christian Carter fills you in so you know what to expect…and tells you how to make the most of each stage so he’ll want to keep moving the relationship forward.