Maybe some other time dating
If you’ve read a couple of my travel guides, you’ll notice that there are a lot of differences when running game on foreign women.
Three hours is a reliable cutoff in my experience, assuming you first write to her before 9pm.As luck would have it, your roommate offers cheap tickets to a local show he can’t attend.You obviously jump at the opportunity with one person in mind: her. But to your dismay, you get a response that poses a problem for many singles: the dreaded “maybe.” For those of you who are not familiar with the dreaded “maybe,” it translates into two things in the online dating world: 1.) I’m really not that interested right now, but if there is nothing else to do this weekend…Hell, search Love Letters for all the guys who are trying to find someone to get over their “C.” HARRISBLACKWOODSTONEI would really think about talking to a therapist about this because there is a pattern here of becoming and staying emotionally attached to unhealthy situations for long periods of time.SEXUAL-CHOCOLATE I am not in the same situation, but I took a chance and asked out a classmate from Long Ago.There's a really high chance that the “too busy” guy (or girl) isn't any busier than the rest of us.
We all get 24 hours a day, so mathematically speaking, we're all working with the same allotment of time per day.
Even if you can’t get him out of your head right away, you must start dating.
You’ll be surprised how much easier it is to move on when there’s something to move toward.
When I actually want to see someone, when he offers to hang out with me on a day I've already gotten plans in place, I rearrange my day to make time for him. My response is something along the lines of, “I'm supposed to do x and y, but if you want to do z in between, that'll work great for me.” Or, I'll budget him into my time for the next day.
But, when I don't care to see him, that's when I go with the “too busy” route.
Unless her phone died, a rare occurrence, there is no reason for her to take more than three hours to reply.