Problems with internet dating sites
A frictionless market is one that puts together buyer and seller without transaction costs.
To me it's important to understand that even your soon to be forever forgotten date is a human being with feelings, and I try my best not to hurt them, even if the picture is ten, twenty something years old and ten or twenty something or more pounds in person. I once met a woman who stated in her profile that she was ostensibly in her mid-forties. I've actually met some women who look better in person than the pictures they use, but that's rare, very rare, and they are usually unaware of it themselves; that they look better in person. I've met many women through internet dating and I can say that when a woman has been honest with me to begin with, I have respect for her, even if I'm not particularly attracted to her, and yes I've made a few "just friends" through internet dating just by their honesty with me.Or rather, it's just a small part of a bigger problem with online dating.And the problem isn't really just a problem with online dating—it's a problem that extrudes from online markets in general: They lack sufficient friction, and paradoxically this is not a good thing.It becomes such a boring argument to hear over and over that the picture doesn't matter. What useful purpose will it serve you if the picture you choose doesn't even resemble what you look like in real life? If you think that then think about the way the person you just met feels. I've heard of people actually walking away from dates when the picture doesn't match. In my own experience, I don't walk away from a woman.I try to make the best of the few moments that I just decided it will be with the other person, then I say good-bye and good luck.This is what it boils down to, and when we step back for a moment and contemplate out own experiences with internet dating, it's interesting to note that the one thing that is always true about it is that we are strangers to each other.
That other person is always a stranger, no matter how the telephone or email conversations went, and no matter how good we feel about the person we are about to meet.
Online dating is not a new concept, but it has evolved into something that offers more positive results, as opposed to its predecessors’ platforms.
It used to be that there was a one-in-a-billion chance for success.
I've done enough internet dating to write a litany about it, and of all the concerns most bothersome and dreary, the promise of meeting an honest person is usually the biggest disappointment of all.
What does it mean to be honest when a person is about to meet a complete stranger, and vice versa?
It’s 2013 in San Francisco, CA and online dating is officially socially acceptable and widely used. Relationships already seem to have a tendency to move fast for single adults.